I Want Her Back In My Life - This Makes Getting Back Your Ex Girlfriend Possible
So, what is it that will make getting back your ex girlfriend possible if you want her back?
It's simple, really. In fact, it is so simple that most guys will dismiss it as being fluff, when it really is one of the main things that you need to do if you want to get your ex girlfriend back.
You have to GET OVER HER!
As long as you hold really DEEP feelings for her, then you know what?
You are probably going to mess things up!
When guys hold on too tightly to an ideal image of an ex girlfriend, which is what happens when you do not get over her, they end up getting all nervous and red faced around her and they make her feel weird just being around them.
You don't want to make her feel weird!
What you do want to do, is to make her say to herself, "Wow, something about him has changed and I LIKE it."
She's not going to say that to herself if you act like a love sick schoolboy around her. She will only act that way if you are cool enough to be aloof, relaxed enough to be distant, and mysterious enough to get her imagination running wild.
She's not the end all and be all of your happiness.
If she is, then you need to get out of the house, get in front of some women fast, and get some rebound time real quick.
It's okay. You won't lose her by getting over her. You will lose her if she thinks that you have become that obsessed guy that sits along in the dark, crying to an old school sappy love song.
Women want men who will make their life BETTER.
She needs to get that impression from you and it's not going to happen if you have tears running down your cheek.
If you are totally stuck and feel like you don't know what the first step to getting back your ex girlfriend is... then I highly suggest that you try getting over her.
See how it makes you feel.
Really try it on for size and get out and meet women.
Then go back to your ex girlfriend and see the difference in the way you feel around her, and the way that SHE RESPONDS to you.
by: Chris Tyler